Valentine’s Day is that special day of the year that symbolizes love and romance. It has been celebrated since the 16th century, when it was called the Feast of Love. The custom has changed over time but the important thing remains that the day evokes strong feelings among lovers, including hope and excitement. To be with your loved one on this day provides a great deal of satisfaction and makes your life worth living. But what about those fantastic Valentine’s Day dreams? What do you dream of in terms of Valentines Day fantasies?
Do you imagine your man giving you a passionate kiss as Valentines Day fantasies? Do you picture him wrapped in a blanket with red roses still on it? Do you picture him as an angel and think he would be willing to give up his own freedom for you? These are all interesting ideas but you can’t have them if you don’t first know how to attract a man with these fantasies.
Love and romance go together in all kinds of ways. They are intertwined in so many ways and it is very easy to become one with each other. But that doesn’t mean you can start doing things before you are ready. You will end up frustrated before you even get started.
Have you ever tried to make a guy fall in love? There are certain things you should never do. Things that are often the cause of failed relationships. You won’t want to miss out on the opportunity to avoid these pitfalls this year.
One sure way to make a man fall in love with you is by having fantastic Valentines Day fantasies and dreams. You may be aware of this already. But does that mean you’re too passive when it comes to dreaming about your guy? Of course not!
Instead of thinking about him and wishing he is your boyfriend, start to imagine the things you could do together. Think about the exciting things you could do together – besides sleeping! Do you have a great sense of adventure? Or do you like routine? Maybe you need a little bit of both.
When it comes to men and their emotions, there is no exact science to describing what men are going to feel. Instead, you just have to go with your instincts. Pay attention to how your man is feeling. Is he restless and full of energy? Or is he more laid back and slow paced?
If he feels restless and energetic, then plan some fun activities for the two of you. If he is slower paced, then go for something quieter, such as a walk or a cruise. No matter what you do, don’t make the mistake of making romance the only thing you focus on. This will drive your man away and make you look like a wimp.
Men love to talk about themselves. So if you want to make your man crazy for you, start talking about yourself. Talk about your interests, your dreams and your future plans. Don’t talk about your past, because that will just upset him and he will probably think that you don’t love him.
Just because you have a good job and make lots of money doesn’t mean that you need to spend every waking moment of the rest of your life working at the job. Spend time with your man. Work hard, but enjoy life. If you show a man that you are independent, creative and capable of handling all sorts of responsibilities, then he will love you. He will find out how much you love yourself and he will also love the fact that you are confident enough to make yourself happy.
You can tell if a man is in love with you by his desire to please you. If he always comes up with ideas for romantic things that you will enjoy, that’s a very positive sign that he is feeling deep love for you. On the other hand, if he always brings up business-related issues or wants to make sure that you’re happy, that’s not a good sign. It may be that he is insecure and afraid of losing you, so he feels the need to occupy your attention whenever possible. But it’s a wonderful idea – love and romance don’t need to be one and the same thing.
You can make your man’s life better by showing him that you are confident enough to do the things on your own that you are capable of doing. You don’t need a man to rely on you, because you are more than able to take care of yourself. It is OK for you to date other men but don’t let your new boyfriends convince you that you should only have a relationship with him. Enjoy the time that you spend with your friends and go after the man that you really want. You know you are the most important person in your man’s life, so make that known.